Okay, so im going to make this as simple and straightforward as i can.
I am a female, i am between the ages of 15-20. And i really don't know too much about paranormal activity.
I live in a house near it's 200th anniversary. There have been a few deaths in the house ive been told, but there is absolutely no reliable information on the house. There has always be a lot of activity in the house, myself and another member of my household have experienced a lot of paranormal or spirit type things going on in the house but i seem to get the worst of it. Their has been tapping on the shoulder, odd rubbing on the top of my head, and other strange things. But this is all minor to me and i get over it. Often though i feel like there is harmless spirits in the house but i feel like there is one tormenting spirit. I have had horrible dreams, like being dragged down the stairs while someone was laughing or being strangled to death in my bed because some one choked me with my sheets (i do not sleep with sheets just a comforter and the sheet cover for the mattress). Weird scratching noises on my carpet leading toward my bed at night, and i sometimes wake up out of a deep sleep for no apparent reason besides feeling like im being watched. We moved into this house when i was eight, and not to long after i developed tormenting OCD and anxiety; i also get sick a lot, we left for a few years(OCD and anxiety practically went away and i didnt get sick at all during this time) and came back to the house and i seem to be the only one suffering from noticing a lot of paranormal activity. Way worse than when i was younger.
This may seem irrelevant at first, but i promise i have a reason for including this.
We adopted a stray kitten that was thrown out of a car about 2 months ago, he had a jaw injury for being thrown out of a car and we dutifully nursed him back to health and loved him very much, he was a real sweetheart. One day we we left the house for about four hours(we had done this many times before) and came back to find that our kitten had strangled himself on one of his toy's (that has been in his room for weeks with no incident and he had no interest in it). The toy had a large loop on it that is just unimaginable that he could of wound it around his neck as tight as it was when we found him. I understand that kittens are playful and accidents happen but something about this just does not sit right with me. The whole household had been through a impossibly depressing year and this kitten was a bundle of joy for the whole house, the only joy in the whole house.
I worry that if their is a bad spirit in the house, it did this and now that poor thing's soul is stuck in the house.
The energy in the house feels just so off now, there is a lot of activity and im pretty much a wreck. There is ton of things going on in the night and i dont get any sleep. Im also always feeling ill as a result.
I would like to know how to safely (without harming any spirits, especially the kitten if he has decided to stay around) get the spirits or negative energy out of the house or to cross over. Im on my last straw, exhausted and stressed i feel like what has been going on in this house for so many years has just exhausted me, advice on what to do would be greatly appreciated. No joke, as i speak there is noises downstairs of something being moved around or thrown around, i have been downstairs more than 15 times to see what is going on and came back upstairs just clueless, it goes on every night for hours and hours; and tonight it has been the loudest, enough to wake up my other two sleeping cats. Please help or give some advice.
Black Tourmaline is a powerful stone for protection against negative energy of all kinds... as well as being a strong spiritual grounding stone. One of the most powerful things about Black tourmaline is that it will suck up any negativity or disharmony that it encounters from its surroundings. But it does not absorb it... but will transmute... or convert the negative energy into positive energy.
Black Tourmaline crystals are strong stones of the two lowest chakras, which are the earth star chakra and the base chakra... as they are powerful stones for grounding. It will also act to protect you against psychic attack and negative entities.
In addition these stones will purify the area where they are located. You all live with a lot of electro-magnetic smog... including your televisions, computers and the large number of other electrical devices that seem to be essential these days, just to live your life.
Hi Christine. I would suggest that you find a reputable paranormal investigative group in your area first off. Let them investigate so that together you can figure out what type of haunting you have. There are solutions to any type of haunting, but you have to determine what exactly it is first. I don't know where you are at, but there are groups in every state. I am in Florida.
totally agree with both of you x
Get an experience team of paranormal investigators in and you can then see what you are dealing with, it's no good starting to use stuff straight away, as you might only anger it more!!!
I always find that talking to whatever it is, helps...but you need to be assertive and not give in to it....as it sounds like it is feeding off your fear and enjoying it x
IF you interact with "intent" to communicate - expect activity to increase. Laying out crystals is a passive, assertive, positive action and it works.
not always the case, sometimes they are just misbehaving for your attention....I am saying you must try to set bounderie's with whatever it is til you can get professional help. Tell it you do not wish it any harm, but want things to stop and never show it fear x
I wasn't telling them to strike up a conversation or Ouija session with it, just to simply tell it you do not fear it and do not want it in your home :-)
Interaction with intent to communicate most often increases activity. For those that can't cope with the activity they're already having I generally recommend a more passive approach first. You can always talk to them later... ;)
In life we are offered many paths. Choose them wisely.
The black tourmaline is a great idea . Smudge with white sage is another option. There are several protection idea's you can use. Have you thought about cleansing your home? If you want some options or how to do a properly cleanse your house email me and and I will teach you how. I run two paranormal companies and I always teach my clients self help. firstname.lastname@example.org. Remember to never show fear and don't be afraid to tell the spirit to stop and command it to leave. Some spirits enjoy instilling fear, don't give in to it. Stand strong and confident. You need to take your home back. Spirits can also make a person physically ill as well, that sounds like what it is doing to you. You need to set salt wards to help protect yourself. Just email me if you want my help, it would be my pleasure to assist.
I totally agree with you telling them to stop or go away and not showing them fear....it does work!!!
I also use salt a lot with spells/protection...and it does work, I just used pentagrams at front and back doors then salted all round exterior of home in one continuous line...then the only probs we had were all outside, so it stopped them coming in and out etc x
If you have lived in this house for a long time the spirit is compatible with your energy. If you can manage a move to another place it would be to your advantage. There might be a wormhole that holds the anger from another life time.
HONEY I WAS BORN INTO THE PARANORMAL FIELD. FIRST OFF YOU NEED TO TELL THE SPIRITS THAT THEY ARE DECEASED. BE FORCEFUL WITH THEM, TELL THEM THEY NEED TO MOVE ON INTO THE LIGHT. THEY DONT NEED TO LINGER AROUND ANYMORE. TELL THEM GOD IS WAITING FOR THEM .ALSO, GET SEA SALT OLIVE OIL AND HOLY WATER FROM A CATHOLIC CHURCH AND GET IT BLESSED. SPRINKLE THE SALT AT ALL ENTRANCES, SAY THE LORDS PRAYER AS YOU ARE MAKING THE CROSS SIGN WITH THE OLIVE OIL ABOVE ALL ENTRANCES, MIRRORS ALONG WITH THE HOLY WATER. IF NEED BE, BURN RUBBED SAGE OR BUY A SMUDGE BUNDLE. WALK THROUGH YOUR HOME DEMANDING THEY ALL LEAVE AND ARE NOT ALLOWED BACK. THEN WHEN FINISHED, ASK GOD TO PROTECT YOU AND YOUR FAMILY AND HOME AND THANK HIM. YOU SHOULD BE OK.