"No problem, as as psychic and a potter ( I make cremation urns) I have heard this from a few people and it's simply not true. the dead aren't like something from a horror movie. and if they wanted to haunt you, there would be no need for a…"
"It would be highly unlikely that she is going to 'haunt you' simply because you have the ashes in the house. I would focus more on the memories of her life than what she might do in death. You have my deepest sympathies for your loss. "